men vs women

Oh hi? its me again?

whos watching the sunday night movie? im not because im watching the tragedy of Oscar pistorious and his amazing love for his gf he shot?on valentines day..

Strange..........

however my post today is more so about relationships between how  males and the females thinks,and how it differs in a million ways 

So communicaction,the exchange of thoughts..the most IMPORTANT activity in which we participate.and WITHOUT good communiction theres no real understanding.agree?

so what we all know is that obviously men and women's thinking process is is not the same!!!!!! and thats why most of us get frustrated at times because we think our husband,boyfriend,dont listen!!!well dont worry you not alone? i think theres a million more ladies and wives and girlfriends out there who would agree.

how men think? i wish i could say they dont ,but surprisingly enough they do,its just in a weird way that us women cant seem to understamd or just deal with

so ladies if your guy doesnt listen to you or respond to you as quick as possible just know that its not because his ignoring you its only because he focuses on ONE THING AT A TIME. 

so for eg :

your boyfriend is tieng his shoelaces and you come in to the room and ask him to guy you speckled eggs ,he will most probably say 'YES' BUT continue tieng his shoelaces , and if he does go to the store later its proven that he will forget the SPECKLED EGGS  because when you asked him to buy the speckled eggs ,his brain and mind was already focusing on the laces,

so always make sure that you have his full attention.:)when asking him to do something for you.

theres nothing wrong with the way men think.the problem comes in when we dont understand one another,we dont take the time out to understand how men think which often leads to us ladies jumping too conclusions and assuming the worst .thats why we often argue and end  up  mis understanding one another because we dont open ourselves up too eachother and FIRST try and understand one another .

i have failed in doing this so many times and i have failed to understand that the way i think and the way a guy thinks differs,which caused me to jump to all sort of conclusions and assume all weird things.

so ladies try and understand your guy before you do anything you regret

i sit with regret today but alot of lessons learnt.

men think differently

women think differently

the understanding of another should be the most interesting part of a good relationship

NOT the breaking point